It's a damn cold night...

Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk. To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.
いつか失ってしまうのかな。薄れてゆく笑顔と君を守りたい。
-- D-technolife

If fate is a wheel, then we are the sand that is crushed between the cogs.

Don't judge a life by one difficult season.

独自并不代表孤单，在一群人中狂笑着有时更寂寞。
-- 吴庆康

At times it may not even seem rational, but the heart has a computing ability that is far more accurate and far more precise than anything within the limits of rational thought.
-- Deepak Chopra
于是我让孤独更孤独，有一种不是悲伤的悲伤，才是刻骨铭心的悲伤。
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love.
-- St Francis.
People's actions are influenced by their expectations. People respond not just to what is happening now, but to what they anticipate will happen in the future.
-- Sloman
不管你会不会忘了我，我只想告诉你一个秘密。
--《不能说的·秘密》

Every action generates a force of energy that returns to us in like kind.
-- Deepak Chopra

The furthest distance in the world is not between life and death but when I stand in front of you yet you don't know that I love you.
-- Tagore
Do do not worry about tomorrow; it will have enough worries of its own. There is no need to add to the troubles each day brings.
-- Matt 6:34

まだ不器用に笑うね まだ悲しみが似合うから
キミに降る痛みを 拭ってあげたい すべて I for you
-- I For You

the optimistic pessimist

supposedly an adult, she thinks like an adult (too much, if you ask me). deep inside, she is nothing but a little girl, with her little lofty dreams and ideals. and oops, she is breaking them, one by one.
more often than not, she is just an angsty emo kid.

she is only but
a passer-by,

an onlooker,
a walking shadow.

and this girl can't stop writing.

she stalks

|| cyn bea bao zou mel ||
|| joan weepz ||
|| blockc yeanching lehia kexi zhenlin horace alvin dina sandra becca tzehee ||
|| cruzteng peifen dasmondkoh ||
|| xiaozhu xiaogui sunxiezhi ashin kangyong ||
|| derrick jinglun stefsun natho lawrencewong ||
|| feliciachin joannepeh jeanetteaw sharonaw ||
|| xiaohan hyr chimkang mingde dannyyeo ||
|| xuyunling alvinology mrbrown esther ||
|| drbondar psychdigest ||
|| kfdrawing iwrotethisforyou thingsweforget ||

After all, what is in the past but what we choose to remember? They can choose not to hide it, to take what's broken, to feel the pain and know that it will heal. They know where happiness lies, not in a cave or a country, but in love and the freedom to give and take what has been there all along.
-- The Bonesetter's Daughter

she watches on

Others desire to experience the blessedness of giving, but we often frustrate them by refusing their help.


“你有心事吗？”
“或许有一天，我会告诉你吧。”
--《不能说的·秘密》

she holds on

　Memories were also a way of looking in a mirror, but it was a jagged mirror of broken glass, one that cast imperfect reflections. Like shards, these memories drew blood.

February 2003 March 2003 April 2003 May 2003 June 2003 July 2003 September 2003 October 2003 November 2003 December 2003 January 2004 February 2004 March 2004 April 2004 May 2004 June 2004 July 2004 August 2004 September 2004 October 2004 November 2004 December 2004 January 2005 February 2005 March 2005 April 2005 May 2005 June 2005 July 2005 August 2005 September 2005 October 2005 November 2005 December 2005 January 2006 February 2006 March 2006 April 2006 May 2006 June 2006 July 2006 August 2006 September 2006 October 2006 November 2006 December 2006 January 2007 February 2007 March 2007 April 2007 May 2007 June 2007 July 2007 August 2007 September 2007 October 2007 November 2007 December 2007 January 2008 February 2008 March 2008 April 2008 May 2008 June 2008 July 2008 August 2008 September 2008 October 2008 November 2008 December 2008 January 2009 February 2009 March 2009 April 2009 May 2009 June 2009 July 2009 August 2009 September 2009 October 2009 November 2009 December 2009 January 2010 February 2010 March 2010 April 2010 May 2010 June 2010 July 2010 August 2010 September 2010 October 2010 November 2010 December 2010 January 2011 February 2011 March 2011 April 2011 May 2011 June 2011 July 2011 August 2011 September 2011 October 2011 November 2011 January 2012 February 2012 April 2012 May 2012 June 2012 July 2012 August 2012 October 2012 November 2012 December 2012 January 2013 February 2013 March 2013 April 2013 May 2013 June 2013 July 2013 August 2013 September 2013 October 2013 November 2013 December 2013 January 2014 February 2014 March 2014 April 2014 May 2014 June 2014 July 2014 August 2014 September 2014 October 2014 November 2014 December 2014 January 2015 February 2015 March 2015 April 2015 May 2015 July 2015 September 2015 October 2015 November 2015 December 2015 January 2016 February 2016 March 2016 April 2016 May 2016 June 2016 August 2016 September 2016 October 2016 November 2016 December 2016 January 2017 February 2017 April 2017 May 2017 August 2017 September 2017 October 2017 November 2017 December 2017 January 2018 February 2018 April 2018 June 2018 July 2018 September 2018 October 2018 November 2018 December 2018 February 2019 April 2019 June 2019 August 2019 October 2019 December 2019 January 2020 February 2020 March 2020 April 2020 May 2020 July 2020 November 2020 February 2021 April 2021 July 2021 September 2021 November 2021 March 2022

she never gets

永远不会交的功课 || 永远不会实现的愿望

|| you ||

Responsibility means not blaming anyone or anything for your situation, including yourself... Whatever relationships you have attracted in your life at this moment are precisely the ones you need in your life at this moment. There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own evolution.
-- Deepak Chopra

she thanks

Designer : Wei Jun
Brushes : Deviantart - Spy Glass

I don't know, I don't know. Sometimes I feel like I'm a pair of eyes and ears, and I'm just trying to stay safe and make sense of what's happening. I know what to avoid, what to worry about.I'm like those kids who live with gunfire going off around them. I don't want pain. I don't want to die. I don't want to see other people around me die. But I don't have anything left inside me to figure out where I fit in or what I want. If I want anything, it's to know what's possible to want.
-- The Bonesetter's Daughter

Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.
Hebrews 11:1

Friday, January 22, 2010
withers away @ 10:13 pm

今天碰到了跟我一样老的朋友（应该说比我老，因为她生日还比我早三天），因为同路，顺便聊了起来。聊起工作，她说做我这一行的很伟大。我还以为她要说这份工吃力不讨好之类的，谁知道她冒出了一句：“因为你们很难找到另一半。”，而且还重复说了一遍。我觉得，选择职业的时候没有多少人会先考量这一点吧。说真的，我是同意她的说法。除非你在踏进这行之前就已经结婚或是有交往的对象，否则很难啦。况且我不相信两个人应该在同一部门工作。那摩擦太多了，利害关系也很复杂。
还没说出我的观点，就被她猜中了我现在对那一块的感觉。老了就是这样，有某种共识了。憧憬？没有耶。眼前只有一片苍白。听到一些歌就会联想到一些人或事，不久前看到哈林在娱百唱《春泥》，那心情酸酸的。现阶段的我，觉得婚姻是恐怖的。
孤独终老就孤独终老吧！孤独万岁！XP（鬼脸）
（开始物色老人院）*shrug*

孤独万岁
失恋无罪
谁保证一觉醒来有人陪
我对于人性早有预备
还不算太黑

孤独万岁
失恋无罪
爱不够爱你的人才受罪
用过去悲伤换来自由
难道不珍贵

一个人崩溃
并不是在犯罪
失恋无罪 - ALin

It's something Mystical

Tuesday, January 19, 2010
withers away @ 3:56 pm


弱さを見せないことが そう強い訳じゃないって
that is why i want
a coin operated boy

It's something Mystical

Friday, January 15, 2010
withers away @ 11:33 am

met nice strangers ytd.. so random. on the bus on the way to sch, there were two prcs sitting in front of me, and they suddenly realized they were supposed to get off and the bus driver was going to drive off already. we were sitting in the upper deck and they hurriedly ran down the stairs. the guy sitting beside me quickly helped them pressed the bell. it seemed so natural, like it was his instinct to do so.
when it was my turn to get down the bus, i wasn't in a rush, but i dropped my phone while walking down the stairs. and it came apart. the cover came off, battery dropped out, sim card bounced out. it was terrible, coz the bus was packed (as usual) and half the bus was trying to alight. my hands were tied coz i was holding my laptop and i was still halfway down the stairs. i think i let out a little scream. oops. a guy very kindly helped me pick everything up and put them in my hand.
let's not talk abt sch coz.. there's some things i can't seem to escape. sigh.
oh but practice saved the day. i was late, it was a mad rush, time was tight, it was a challenging piece. it was crazy. after combining once i felt so out of breath. i think i forgot to breathe until yih reminded us to. but but it was so satisfying! 能在一片喧闹混乱中找到一种定律并随着它摆动。 乱中有序。爽！

It's something Mystical

Tuesday, January 05, 2010
withers away @ 12:00 pm

oh this v interesting article caught my attn. the female species, if u are wondering why your male counterparts are slow at realizing things, deaf, or u simply just dun uds why they do some things sometimes, here's why. they are MADE this way. well, it's a neurobio article, but i shall cut the terms and try some v rough translations here. i just need to share this.
the brains of females develop to complete maturity at 21-22 yrs old, and that of guys? 30. (ah, no wonder) the parts of the brain that governs language and fine motor controls develops 6 years ealier in the female, whereas the parts controling navigation (i'm guessing that's what 掌管目标 means) and spatial memory develops 4 years earlier in the male. (so that's why guys are better at navigation)
females learn language through listening, but males, through sight.
males are better at spatial skill, like mental rotation tasks.
females are faster at identifying human facial expressions.
the ability to express his feelings develops 2 years later in males than females.
due to male hormones, males tend to have a "fight or flight" reaction towards stress, while females have a "tend and befriend" reaction. males want to be left alone, while females rather be with their friends.
males' amygdala is larger than that of a female, so they're more rash.
females have better hearing than males.

It's something Mystical

Sunday, January 03, 2010
withers away @ 1:23 pm

多做少说，甚至只做不说。50年后，是非对错？

It's something Mystical